Eyes Never Lie

What do men and women think about when they look someone up and down?

Women
What I assumed before I asked this question was that women look at a man and analyze everything about him. How clean he is, the shape of his body, his arms, his legs, his chest, his hair and bulge. Stuff that would make a girl wonder just how well he takes care of himself. Mainly I thought that was it. And maybe that all depended on whether or not she was looking at his front or from behind, cause that immediately makes me assume a girl is checking out a guy's butt.

Now, the answer I got was kinda funny though. My favorite person in the world told me she often times looks and stares into space just thinking and guys just so happen to be in her line of sight. I wonder how many men thought she was looking at them and wondered if they had a chance with her? Or just chuckled and smiled to themselves as I do when I catch a girl looking at me that way. And then I had to laugh at myself. Because how many times have I caught a girl staring at me and she was thinking about her laundry or homework or what she wanted to wear out to party that night? Needless to say, my self-confidence dropped slightly.

Now besides actually just thinking, she told me that men are mysteries to women. That made me laugh again, because men are the most simple creatures on the planet. They ask some of the same questions I posed in the beginning of this blog and to be honest most men dress for comfort, some for style and the opposite sex.

Men
Now I can only speak for myself, but if I'm looking a woman up and down I'm looking at more than just her body. Not judging, but understanding what it is this woman may be about. I look at your curves, and the movement of your body. Is she rigid and stiff or is she smooth and relaxed. Its never that simple but it reveals more than any person could imagine. How someone dances, how someone is in bed with another and even how they carry themselves in everyday life. I can't deny that a lot of the time, I'm just checking a girl out and being a typical man. Can you blame me? Am I objectifying woman? Maybe, but that is still a compliment right?



Please, analyze this all you want and give feedback if you see fit. These are just ramblings from my brain so join the fray.